Since more than 30 years my parents have been married. in the early days there was huge abuse, domestic violence, extra marital affairs, loans from my dad side. he used to come home drunk and then abuse us all. my mom parents weren't supportive to take her back, so she had to live with this man. me and my brother have grown up seeing the abuse from my dad side. now my brother is earning good and he stays away from us for his job purpose. my dad has stopped coming home drunk I believe and he doesn't physically abuse my mom now BUT he has no ambition. me, my brother and mom wants to make our life better. my brother gives money to but stuff and all my dad does is watch TV during holidays. even the car we have now is given by my brother, he paid for the whole north India trip, fridge and what not! should I tell my mom to file for divorce or should I move out myself? It will take me time to move out because I am still a student. my dad is going to get retired next year and all he does is sleep and watch TV in these 30 years. if my mom files for divorce how much share she will get? I am above 22 btw. give some advice